We have adopted this fact quite well that someones success is defined by the richness of their relationships , finances and self being .
But what if there is a imbalance in these elements ? Did you ever wonder what would it be like if there is no direction to the life , like there is no purpose and greater need to wake up everyday feeling motivated . The life will seem negative to you , and it will affect every little thing around you . Well this is kind of an experience most of the people go through at least once in their life-span .
Only the successful people reap the benefit of such experience and get shaped and stronger while the rest just get through it . But how ? why ? The only thing that makes them successful is power of positivity , its a way of telling yourself that everything is gonna be alright even if its only getting worst . Its the simple belief that keeps you going , knowing that you’re alone on this road and its only getting darker as far you go . But how being positive works ?
It might does not make sense at start but let me start by asking you a simple question.
Whats that first thing that goes inside your head when that little code of yours does not work ? or when a teams strategies does not seem to work on the football ground ? or when the art does not gets that success ? You change your thinking to get different results !
This is one the key things to learn practising thinking from a different point of view . It not only makes you a more reasonable person in life but also opens a door for whole bunch of different ideas and thoughts . So by redefining your mindset you’re just increasing your number of outcomes , which more , the better .
Think to DO it , not ESCAPE it
One of bigger pitfalls though for changing your mindset is people often find the ways to escape , which might not be the best way out .
The biggest example here is that people are getting more money-oriented for their jobs and they see no other motivation to it . They are just working to meet up the deadlines and waiting for paychecks as a resource to escape the reality by buying their happiness . If we could realize the bigger picture and still understand that people lived great and beautiful lives even when money did not existed . Think of working as to improve your environment or for collaborating or making a different routine and learning things or facing challenges in life , it be such a better definition to look at rather then just an escape .
But the story does not ends here . Say you have been a pessimist for a while now in life and are surrounded by no such hope for a birth of positivity . What now ? Change your inputs then . By that I mean change every input in your life that includes your lifestyle , your friends , your eating habits , your sleep cycle , your spending habits .
By only changing your environment and friend circle you would have conquered half the battle .
The other half is managing your finances and looking out for self being (health , outdoor activities , diet , sleep , meditation , etc)
“The more you feed your mind with positive thoughts, the more you can attract great things into your life.”
― Roy T. Bennett
There is no such thing as darkness or negativity in life , its only the absence of positive attitude .
Hope you enjoyed my very first non-techy article . Thanks for reading and stay tuned for more :)